March 12, 2014

Oh, Allies…

For a while now, I have tried to avoid award show commentary. This year’s Grammy Awards ceremony reminded me of why... I was distracted by a different self-proclaimed ally to the LGBT community.
March 4, 2014

Femme Problems 118: If My Dresses Could Talk

As a femme, I have fallen in love with my dresses and I miss them almost as much as I miss summer itself. The short skirts, the lace, the bows, and the poufed crinoline inspired numbers—they all work together to fashion my character and portray my personality.
March 3, 2014

Boi Problems 104: Many Destinations, Many Journeys

When I first came out as a trans man, I was going through a “butch” phase. Partially from my therapist, partially from observing trans men, I felt pressure to be masculine.
February 28, 2014

Femme Problems 117: Unbeweavable or Naturaliscious?

I’m pretty sure heaven has a beauty supply filled with little giggling grrls and bois picking out beads and barrettes. While I definitely did my share of happily picking out adornments for my hair, I never grew to love the journey to getting them onto my head.