January 16, 2014

Femme Problems 112: Perspectives on the New Year

It’s a new year, and for us femmes, it’s also an opportunity to form new relationships, break bad habits, and rejuvenate our hearts and minds.
January 13, 2014

Waves of Change: A Personal Reflection on HIV/AIDS

This year will mark the 33rd Anniversary of HIV/AIDS in the United States and I have been reflecting on the impact it has had on my life. I “came out” as a lesbian in 1986, what some consider to be the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis in the U.S.
January 9, 2014
Two white, femme women look at a laptop

Femme Problems 111: So What If We Met Online?

I have absolutely no shame in my Internet dating game. That's why whenever I'm asked the ineludible question “How did you meet your girlfriend”, I proudly retort: OkCupid.
December 27, 2013

Femme Problems 110: Meeting Offline for the First Time

By Katy Ray
It’s hard out there for a single femme, which is probably why studies show that online dating activity soars over 300% after the holidays. While I most certainly am far from feeling lonely this holiday season, I will always appreciate the days where online dating was almost a hobby of mine.