A 5 Night, 6-Day Relationship Transforming Retreat for Queer Couples (female-sexed) in St. George, Utah. You will be introduced to the 6 Lesbian Love Codes developed by Michele O’Mara, PhD. (Give, Receive, Understand, Prioritize, Protect and Enjoy) A balance of relational growth and lesbian adventures with new friends, this unique experience is often quoted as offering more to couples in one week than couples counseling offers in a year.