Expressing yourself takes form in many ways. As a masculine presenting person, societal norms limit how we can express ourselves without question. But, why should you care what anyone else thinks about your choice of expression? Self expression through style is not only about putting on the perfect outfit but about the details that separate you from everyone else. These details can be the difference between sparking a new conversation with a stranger and looking like everyone else.
As a masc person who loves getting her nails done, I’ve learned to embrace a unique part of myself that defies traditional norms for masc women. An artistic manicure offers a powerful way to express myself, blending the masculine with a touch of razzle dazzle. When I was younger, women I dated told me it was “too feminine,” but as I got older, I realized the only opinion that mattered was my own.
Currently, there is a lot of conversation on social media about masculine-presenting women, (sometimes called “butches” or “studs,”) being “too sassy,” but, don’t let that deter you. Because let’s be real, nail art isn’t inherently feminine; it’s a form of self-expression. Anyone can paint their nails: straight men, masc women, feminine women, and any other person in any intersectional combination.
If you are worried about how painting your nails might affect your dating life, answer this: do you want someone who likes you for you? Or, do you want someone who wants you to be someone else, and expects you to conform to what others want?
Nail art is not new, it has even been popular for men for centuries. In both ancient Egypt and ancient China men have added flavor to their nails. In ancient Egypt, manicures were an important symbol of wealth and status. Even in ancient China, where nail polish was invented, men wore their nails long as a symbol of status. So, the idea that nail art is inherently feminine is a wild misconception. It transcends gender, allowing everyone to express their individuality.
Getting your paws painted allows space to express yourself in new ways. Think of it as the perfect accessory to show off your style, similar to adding pins to your hat. Whether it’s a bold color that someone can see from far away or a subtle design, it’s a statement of who you are.
Start simple and easy: classic colors like black, navy, or gray with simple designs. Stripes or dots can be just enough flavor. Since there are no rules, you don’t have to paint all your nails the same color, you can mix it up, add designs, and get creative. Then you can explore and experiment with more vibrant colors and detailed designs. If you are unsure of what you want, there are places online to find inspiration such as Instagram and Pinterest.
You are breaking the rules by switching your flow and getting your pizza grabbers painted. Embracing yourself fully can sometimes feel radical like a small rebellion against societal norms that dictate how masc women should look. On the other hand, it doesn’t have to be that deep: you can simply do it because it’s what you want to do. That is all that matters, living authentically and confidently.
Ultimately, getting your hand holders done is about being true to yourself. If it makes you happy, do it! If not, that’s okay too. The key is to find what makes you feel comfortable and empowered. Don’t let the expectations of others dictate your choices. Live a life where you can see yourself, feel like your authentic self, and are free from the constraints placed upon you by others.
Manicures are a form of self-care, a way to look good, and a dope way to stand out in a crowd. So, go ahead, and book an appointment today. Embrace your authenticity, and if you want, let your nails be a canvas for self-expression.
