Dear White Lesbians: You Are Not Studs
First came “butch” and “femme.” Remember when we even said “futch?” Then some women started using “top” and “bottom” (and the accompanying “vers” or “switch”). But today on TikTok? The
Femme Problems 148: My Love is Purple, Paisley, and Queer all Over
I have been unable to stop crying about Prince’s passing. Sure, I loved his music, but honestly, falling apart like this over a stranger is weird—even for me. I think
I’m More Than a Friend, Dammit!
Despite our closeness, I have been assumed everything in relation to my partner, but a girlfriend. Once we were even asked, "Are you two...sisters?" As my boifriend is a blue…
Boi Problems 101: The “Ma’am” Conundrum
By Benny Navarro Picture it, you're at the 7-11 looking for some snacks and a bottle of water to get you through the day and while in line you decide…