March 10, 2020
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Dear White Lesbians: You Are Not Studs

First came “butch” and “femme.” Remember when we even said […]
April 25, 2016
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Femme Problems 148: My Love is Purple, Paisley, and Queer all Over

I have been unable to stop crying about Prince’s passing. […]
August 15, 2014

I’m More Than a Friend, Dammit!

Despite our closeness, I have been assumed everything in relation to my partner, but a girlfriend. Once we were even asked, "Are you two...sisters?" As my boifriend is a blue eyed towhead with translucent skin, and I use the same shade of MAC Studio Fix as Lupita Nyong'o...
December 23, 2013

Boi Problems 101: The “Ma’am” Conundrum

By Benny Navarro
Picture it, you're at the 7-11 looking for some snacks and a bottle of water to get you through the day and while in line you decide to buy a pack of cigarettes. There are a few people in front of you so you’re not really paying attention, fiddling with your iPod when you hear, “Sir?”