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August 15, 2014

Published by Tiffany Mott-Smith at August 15, 2014

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I’m More Than a Friend, Dammit!

Despite our closeness, I have been assumed everything in relation to my partner, but a girlfriend. Once we were even asked, "Are you two...sisters?" As my boifriend is a blue eyed towhead with translucent skin, and I use the same shade of MAC Studio Fix as Lupita Nyong'o...

May 1, 2014

Published by Karen Houston and Katy Ray at May 1, 2014

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Opinion 1

Femme Problems 121: Coping with Femme Invisibility

As Beyoncé says, pretty hurts, and in the case of femme presentation, it hurts us in ways that others in our community may not even know or notice. Sure—being a femme lesbian has its perks and privileges, but it certainly doesn’t come without its fair share of disadvantages.

September 23, 2013

Published by Tagg Magazine at September 23, 2013

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Sex & Romance

Navigating Through Butchspeak

How to translate butchspeak By Butchwonders.com
I just received a note from a reader who's having trouble communicating with her butch DGF ("dear girlfriend"). She asked if I could "translate" some common butch idioms.