March 19, 2015
Steered Straight Femme Problems

Femme Problems 142: Steered Straight

Though I have been out as a lesbian for years […]
June 27, 2014

Femme Problems 126: Friends and Frenemies

By the time I graduated high school, I earned an A in Haters 101. I was never born with that inner desire to fit the mold, so I was largely accustomed to the haterade the cool kids threw at me as I walked by in my JNCO jeans and black lipstick.
May 1, 2014

Femme Problems 121: Coping with Femme Invisibility

As Beyoncé says, pretty hurts, and in the case of femme presentation, it hurts us in ways that others in our community may not even know or notice. Sure—being a femme lesbian has its perks and privileges, but it certainly doesn’t come without its fair share of disadvantages.