Femme Problems 142: Steered Straight
Though I have been out as a lesbian for years and attracted to women all my life, my coming out process started later than most. I was always physically attracted
Femme Problems 126: Friends and Frenemies
By the time I graduated high school, I earned an A in Haters 101. I was never born with that inner desire to fit the mold, so I was largely…
Femme Problems 121: Coping with Femme Invisibility
As Beyoncé says, pretty hurts, and in the case of femme presentation, it hurts us in ways that others in our community may not even know or notice. Sure—being a…