A good strap-on is a must-have for any sapphic relationship. But if you find yourself topping with one, you may notice many are made exclusively for the pleasure of the bottom, and can be uncomfortable for the top. But there’s hope! Double-sided straps are made for the pleasure of both parties. Here are our top 10 (silicone and waterproof) vibrating double-sided straps on the market in 2023, linked in their names.
This toy comes with a ‘bulb’-shaped end, called the pony, which one partner inserts into their vagina and is held in place by pelvic muscles. Both ends are adjustable to the desired angle. It comes with a small bullet vibrator which can be inserted to make the whole toy vibrate.
This toy includes adjustable rabbit ears to add clitoral pleasure for the top, as well as eight vibration patterns and 12 speeds. The pony is an excellent shape which stays inserted through even the most powerful thrusts.
While this one is a bit pricey, the interesting shape and powerful vibrations make it worth it. The ‘W’ shape ensures clitoral stimulation for both users.
This strap is a little smaller than some of these other recommendations, which is good for beginners or simply those who prefer smaller toys. The vibrations come in three speeds and seven patterns, and can be activated via buttons on the toy, or via remote.
While also on the expensive side, this strap has an inflatable pony for ease of insertion and removal. It boasts a ‘come-hither’ vibration motion that gently rocks both users’ bodies. The shaft is textured for an especially unique sensation on the receiving end.
This toy is unique for its removable arched shaft, which can be unscrewed to use the base for solo play. The base is ‘butterfly-shaped,’ with two wings and a pair of antennae for clitoral stimulation as well as stimulation along the labia. Because the base of this toy is so focused on the wearer, it provides a lot of sensation and pleasure for the top.
Lovense is a brand known for its app-controlled vibrators. You can set the vibrations to music, a custom pattern, or control them manually. This toy has three separate motors, one at the end of the shaft, one in the bulb, and one in the clitoral area, all of which can be controlled separately.
The end of this shaft has two small bulbs for an unusual sensation great for beginners. The bullet vibrator inserts directly below the clit for intense vibrations inside the wearer.
Another remote-controlled vibrating strap, this one with interesting, bumpy textures for both the wearer and receiver. It comes with nine vibration speeds and intensities. This company specializes in couples’ toys, so needless to say, this one is designed with both users in mind.
This strap-on comes with a remote, an adjustable four-way harness, and a curved shaft on both ends. Both shafts are ridged for the user’s pleasure. The remote sends vibrations down both shafts to maximize shared sensation and intimacy.
These ten toys are designed for pleasure for both parties, so go enjoy yourselves!
