December 3, 2013
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Loving Trans Men: Why I Don’t Just Date “Real” Men

By Tiffany Mott-Smith
“If you date trans men, why don’t you just date, you know, a real man?” This question has definitely gotten me worked into a hold-my-purse, ready-to-scrap, tizzy a few times.
November 26, 2013

Femme Problems 106: Meeting Her Family

By Katy Ray
Thanksgiving is this week, and with that little revelation comes the depressing realization that I've had a dessert every day this week. When I walk into the kitchen at work there's always some tasty treat tempting my taste buds.
November 20, 2013

Femme Problems 105: Labels and Libidos

By Katy Ray
We naturally rely on labels to guide us through a myriad of daily decisions and calculations. From calorie counting to using the public restroom, we operate under a series of labels in order to classify and process the world around us.
November 13, 2013

Loving Butch Women

Why I don't "just date men"

By Jade Salazar
“If you’re dating a woman who looks like a man, then why don’t you just date men?” We femmes hear this question far too often.