November 12, 2013
Annoyed woman

Femme Problems 104: “But You Don’t Look Like a Lesbian”

By Katy Ray
We’ve all been there before: a straight guy does a double take when he sees you holding hands with your girlfriend at the mall. A grocer accidently fumbles your tampons when you mention your unusually cantankerous wife at home.
November 5, 2013

Femme Problems 103: Things I Never Thought I’d Try—Until I Did

Some call it love. Others call it desperation. One minute you're jumping into a relationship and the next you're jumping out of an airplane. For some inexplicable reason, we all end up doing things we never thought we would do or even thought we could do, all in the name of “true love.”
October 29, 2013
Two girls laugh together on stone steps on a date.

Femme Problems 102: Sorry, but I Believe in Dating

By Katy Ray
How many times have you found yourself in this situation: you go out to Phase, Cobalt, or Nellie’s, meet a really cute girl, and by the end of the night she asks for your number and you’re texting all week.
October 22, 2013

Femme Problems 101: What to Wear

I'll never forget the first time my longstanding crush finally asked me out on a date. At last, I thought, our club-side cigarette breaks were finally going to pay off. I was thrilled.