November 20, 2013

Femme Problems 105: Labels and Libidos

By Katy Ray
We naturally rely on labels to guide us through a myriad of daily decisions and calculations. From calorie counting to using the public restroom, we operate under a series of labels in order to classify and process the world around us.
November 13, 2013

Loving Butch Women

Why I don't "just date men"

By Jade Salazar
“If you’re dating a woman who looks like a man, then why don’t you just date men?” We femmes hear this question far too often.
November 12, 2013
Annoyed woman

Femme Problems 104: “But You Don’t Look Like a Lesbian”

By Katy Ray
We’ve all been there before: a straight guy does a double take when he sees you holding hands with your girlfriend at the mall. A grocer accidently fumbles your tampons when you mention your unusually cantankerous wife at home.
November 5, 2013

Femme Problems 103: Things I Never Thought I’d Try—Until I Did

Some call it love. Others call it desperation. One minute you're jumping into a relationship and the next you're jumping out of an airplane. For some inexplicable reason, we all end up doing things we never thought we would do or even thought we could do, all in the name of “true love.”