January 24, 2014

Femme Problems 113: The Top 5 Lesbians to Avoid at the Bar

From the moment a girl walks up to me at the bar, I can almost always tell exactly what type she is. Perhaps it's a gift I've acquired after spending over four years hosting and emceeing events at the longest operating lesbian bar in the country.
January 16, 2014

Femme Problems 112: Perspectives on the New Year

It’s a new year, and for us femmes, it’s also an opportunity to form new relationships, break bad habits, and rejuvenate our hearts and minds.
January 9, 2014
Two white, femme women look at a laptop

Femme Problems 111: So What If We Met Online?

I have absolutely no shame in my Internet dating game. That's why whenever I'm asked the ineludible question “How did you meet your girlfriend”, I proudly retort: OkCupid.
December 27, 2013

Femme Problems 110: Meeting Offline for the First Time

By Katy Ray
It’s hard out there for a single femme, which is probably why studies show that online dating activity soars over 300% after the holidays. While I most certainly am far from feeling lonely this holiday season, I will always appreciate the days where online dating was almost a hobby of mine.