From the moment a girl walks up to me at the bar, I can almost always tell exactly what type she is. Perhaps it's a gift I've acquired after spending over four years hosting and emceeing events at the longest operating lesbian bar in the country.
What NOT to say to a transgender person: Curiosity is a dangerous animal (after all, it did kill our beloved cat), but it is a natural predator that we’re all prone to.
This year will mark the 33rd Anniversary of HIV/AIDS in the United States and I have been reflecting on the impact it has had on my life. I “came out” as a lesbian in 1986, what some consider to be the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis in the U.S.