January 24, 2014

Femme Problems 113: The Top 5 Lesbians to Avoid at the Bar

From the moment a girl walks up to me at the bar, I can almost always tell exactly what type she is. Perhaps it's a gift I've acquired after spending over four years hosting and emceeing events at the longest operating lesbian bar in the country.
January 22, 2014
A pencil sketch of a trans man binding his chest

Boi Problems 102: What’s in a Name?

What NOT to say to a transgender person: Curiosity is a dangerous animal (after all, it did kill our beloved cat), but it is a natural predator that we’re all prone to.
January 16, 2014

Femme Problems 112: Perspectives on the New Year

It’s a new year, and for us femmes, it’s also an opportunity to form new relationships, break bad habits, and rejuvenate our hearts and minds.
January 13, 2014

Waves of Change: A Personal Reflection on HIV/AIDS

This year will mark the 33rd Anniversary of HIV/AIDS in the United States and I have been reflecting on the impact it has had on my life. I “came out” as a lesbian in 1986, what some consider to be the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis in the U.S.