January 9, 2014
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Femme Problems 111: So What If We Met Online?

I have absolutely no shame in my Internet dating game. That's why whenever I'm asked the ineludible question “How did you meet your girlfriend”, I proudly retort: OkCupid.
December 27, 2013

Femme Problems 110: Meeting Offline for the First Time

By Katy Ray
It’s hard out there for a single femme, which is probably why studies show that online dating activity soars over 300% after the holidays. While I most certainly am far from feeling lonely this holiday season, I will always appreciate the days where online dating was almost a hobby of mine.
December 23, 2013

Boi Problems 101: The “Ma’am” Conundrum

By Benny Navarro
Picture it, you're at the 7-11 looking for some snacks and a bottle of water to get you through the day and while in line you decide to buy a pack of cigarettes. There are a few people in front of you so you’re not really paying attention, fiddling with your iPod when you hear, “Sir?”
December 20, 2013
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A Part of the Crowd

By Benson Navarro
“How do you know that you're really trans?” To put mildly, this is a very egregious question I'm sure many transgender people can attest to hearing. While it's certainly not the most combative question, in a sense, it can be very trigger inducing causing a series of emotions to stir, such as rage, sadness, confusion, and grief.