January 24, 2014

Femme Problems 113: The Top 5 Lesbians to Avoid at the Bar

From the moment a girl walks up to me at the bar, I can almost always tell exactly what type she is. Perhaps it's a gift I've acquired after spending over four years hosting and emceeing events at the longest operating lesbian bar in the country.
January 9, 2014
Two white, femme women look at a laptop

Femme Problems 111: So What If We Met Online?

I have absolutely no shame in my Internet dating game. That's why whenever I'm asked the ineludible question “How did you meet your girlfriend”, I proudly retort: OkCupid.
December 27, 2013

Femme Problems 110: Meeting Offline for the First Time

By Katy Ray
It’s hard out there for a single femme, which is probably why studies show that online dating activity soars over 300% after the holidays. While I most certainly am far from feeling lonely this holiday season, I will always appreciate the days where online dating was almost a hobby of mine.
December 18, 2013

Femme Problems 109: The Woes and Wonders of Online Dating

By Katy Ray
Current studies show that 3 out of 5 gay couples meet online, a staggering statistic when compared to the only 1 in 5 heterosexual couples who meet the same way.