Many would agree that online social networks, smartphone apps, matchmakers, meetups, and setups have made it easier to get a first date. But when you’re ready for a relationship, going on first date after first date can be exasperating.
Let’s face it — it can be a rough go out there in the lesbian dating world. So it’s no wonder that when we happen on someone who seems nice and we find attractive, we rush headlong into a relationship. Often we do this despite the bright red “Dater Beware” signs blinking in front of us.
From the moment a girl walks up to me at the bar, I can almost always tell exactly what type she is. Perhaps it's a gift I've acquired after spending over four years hosting and emceeing events at the longest operating lesbian bar in the country.