Femme Problems 112: Perspectives on the New Year
It’s a new year, and for us femmes, it’s also an opportunity to form new relationships, break bad habits, and rejuvenate our hearts and minds.
Femme Problems 111: So What If We Met Online?
I have absolutely no shame in my Internet dating game. That's why whenever I'm asked the ineludible question “How did you meet your girlfriend”, I proudly retort: OkCupid.
Femme Problems 110: Meeting Offline for the First Time
By Katy Ray It’s hard out there for a single femme, which is probably why studies show that online dating activity soars over 300% after the holidays. While I most…
Femme Problems 109: The Woes and Wonders of Online Dating
By Katy Ray Current studies show that 3 out of 5 gay couples meet online, a staggering statistic when compared to the only 1 in 5 heterosexual couples who meet…
Femme Problems 108: Fighting the Urge to U-Haul
By Katy Ray There are very few feelings in this world that can compare to two women falling in love. It's like fate zaps us with a lightening bolt and…
Femme Problems 106: Meeting Her Family
By Katy Ray Thanksgiving is this week, and with that little revelation comes the depressing realization that I've had a dessert every day this week. When I walk into the…
Femme Problems 105: Stop Labeling My Libido
By Katy Ray We naturally rely on labels to guide us through a myriad of daily decisions and calculations. From calorie counting to using the public restroom, we operate under…
Femme Problems 104: “But You Don’t Look Like a Lesbian”
By Katy Ray We’ve all been there before: a straight guy does a double take when he sees you holding hands with your girlfriend at the mall. A grocer accidently…
Femme Problems 103: Things I Never Thought I’d Try—Until I Did
Some call it love. Others call it desperation. One minute you're jumping into a relationship and the next you're jumping out of an airplane. For some inexplicable reason, we all…
Femme Problems 102: Sorry, but I Believe in Dating
By Katy Ray How many times have you found yourself in this situation: you go out to Phase, Cobalt, or Nellie’s, meet a really cute girl, and by the end…